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Butterfly Workshops and Yoga Mandali Host Valentines Day Puja and New Book Release Party for Tantra Expert, Laurie Handlers', M.A., "Sex an
Laurie Handlers introduces her new book Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy at a Valentine's Day Puja event on Wednesday, February 14, 2007 at Yoga Mandali in SoHo. Handlers will read excerpts from Sex and Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy and sign copies. This is the inaugural event for the release of her much anticipated book.

The Fourth Better Sex -- Erotic Fiction Writing Contest BetterSex.com Seeks Next Candace Bushnell
The Sinclair Institute and BetterSex.com announced today that it will award over $4,000 in cash and prizes great amateur erotic fiction writers.

Diabetic Foundation Brings "Sex and the City" to Miami with Screening and Silent Auction
The Diabetic Foundation will host a private screening of "Sex and the City" with a VIP reception and silent auction, in Aventura on June 1st. The screening of the film will be followed by a "Cosmos and Champagne" reception where guests can bid on items that tie into the film's theme. In 2006, the Diabetic Foundation was formed, a non-profit organization designed specifically to benefit underprivileged South Florida families whose children are suffering from juvenile diabetes. The president and founder of the Diabetic Foundation is Joseph Haber, a South Florida native who was diagnosed with type-2 diabetes himself several years ago. More details about the event and the mission of the Diabetic Foundation are available on the charities website...

Herbal Sex Supplements
There are numerous herbal supplements on the market today that increase sexual performance and satisfaction. How is one to choose which of these products is the right one to try? Trying to sort through the various descriptions can be time-consuming and frustrating.

If The Fire Is Gone From Your Sex Life
If the fire is gone from your sex life, one or both of you better get more creative about your sexual fantasies. Here are some things you can do:Surprise him or her with a picnic at work or a rendezvous call from a motel after work.

Secrets of the Opposite Sex
Secrets of the Opposite SexMany jokes, problems, and conversations revolve around communications differences between men and women. Women are often teased for gabbing, nagging and chattering on about nothing.

New Martini and Manicure Parties with a Complimentary Viewing of Sex In The City Episodes in Anticipation of the new Movie Release! The Event Spa Intr
Just in time for the movie opening, The Event Spa will slipping into their stiletto's for their latest party style of Soak N Social. Order up a mini spa treatment and a receive complimentary martini, paraffin experience, stiletto strut class and a viewing of Sex In The City's final episodes

Practice Safe Sex
Sex education classes have taught teens that safe sex can easily prevent two ?unwanted? effects of sexual intercourse. The first would be to avoid pregnancy, and the second to prevent the transmission of STDs. Although most educational institutions have stressed the importance of teaching safe sex to teenagers, it is mainly focused on vaginal sex. They have neglected to include oral sex, anal sex, and homosexual relationships. Teenagers now have evolved sexual relationships and orientations that it is just hard to keep up with them. Those who are much older might be as ignorant as these teens, but ignorance should never be used as an excuse not to use a condom.

New Book, 'Marriage and Sex': The Social Acceptance of Aberrant Sexual Activities in America is Enslaving Millions to Spiritual Bondage
Spiritual restoration and deliverance are aspects of marriage. Divorce destroys trust and fuels the fires of doubt, insecurity and fear. The perpetrator experiences guilt leaving the victim feeling like a failure, forsaken for another sexual partner and frequently results in lasting memories and deep insecurities.

Dating and Sex: Good Advice about Sex on Dates
To have or not to have, that's the big question surrounding sex on dates. Will you still be respected in the morning if you agree to sex on a first date? Will you still have a partner if you still haven't agreed to have sex and you've now been dating for a month? When is the right time, and what can you expect from your partner?

Nudism and Sex
I think nudism and sex does get mixed up sometimes. I think that in Europe and particularly in Germany the people are more in touch with themselves and more comfortable with nudity.

The Female Sex Drive - Tips For Better Sex
Did you know that as much as 46% of women are unhappy with their sex life? Much of this is due to sexual frustration and low female sex drive. There are many causes for low female sex drive and part of that is due to the fact that the female sex drive is more sensitive to environmental, physical, and psychological influences than men.

Move Over, Carrie Bradshaw! New Web Site Bringing New Yorkers High Fashion for Less -- Found4Less.com Offering "Sex and the City" Styles at Bargain Ba
Where's a budget-conscious New York fashion maven to turn when she wants to look "Sex and the City" fab? To the newly launched Found4Less.com, that's where. Jam-packed with the best local shopping deals, affordable locales and current sales, Found4Less.com is the fashion-forward NYC girl's new best friend.

The Country Music Awards, a Posh Miami Hotel and Sex
A new anthology offers stories in lush sensual strokes

Skincare Trends for Either Sex: Threading, a Skin Care Innovation
Skincare news explains how both men and women conquer the dreaded "unibrow" using a new trend: threading.

Casual Sex

Dear Lucia,

I'm sleeping with this guy who I originally got involved with because I knew he was not the type to commit to one girl. I just wanted sex with no strings attached. Now we're hanging out, cuddling and spending the night together. He's the one initiating all of this and I'm starting to like him. I think he feels the same way, but it's so hard to read through the game and I know the game because I've done it too. Should I break it off before I end up having feelings for him and getting hurt? Or, should I keep doing what we're doing and see if his actions are really sincere? Lost

Dear Lost,

Women are supposed to bond with the men they have sex with. Nature made it this way in order to ensure the woman would stay with the man long enough to procreate. In this era of booty calls, friends with benefits and sex with no strings attached, women are learning the hard way that it's not always possible to keep casual sex, well, casual.

Dr. Patricia Allen, in her book "Getting to I Do", says that casual sex in a normal woman triggers a bonding that verges on physical addiction. She continues, "This is due to a sexually stimulated hormone called oxytocin... which triggers orgasm. Soon the sound of his voice, the look on his face, the touch of his hands... become intensely associated with the addictive pleasure that oxytocin brings, and keeps "her" bonded to "him". In other words, oxytocin (not to be confused with the drug oxycotin) makes you feel good about the person who causes the hormone to be released. I guess this accounts for some women's bad choice of partners.

You ask if you should break it off before you end up having feelings for him. I hate to tell you, but you already have feelings for him. There are two ways of dealing with this situation – directly or indirectly.

If you choose the former, then you need to find out how he feels about you. I would ask him when you are "hanging out and cuddling". If he says he wants to keep things as they are, then you need to decide if you can live with that. Sure he may not be telling the truth or he may change his mind, but how much time, energy and emotion do you want to waste to find out?

If you choose the latter, then he should not sleep over anymore. Sleeping over can ruin a perfectly good booty call. This privilege should only be reserved for boyfriends. Also, you need to start dating (though not necessarily sleeping with) other guys and make sure he knows it. If he does have feelings for you, he won't want you to date others and will step up to the plate.

You can lie to him about what type of relationship you want, but please don't lie to yourself. Most guys will say they don't want to commit to one girl, until they find that one girl they do want to commit to. Once you're on the booty call list, it's not easy to get off (so to speak).

Is it possible for some women to keep things casual when it comes to sex? Absolutely, but they are generally the exception that proves the rule. Make sure you know which category you're in before you decide to go against nature.

Lucia is a dating and relationship expert, columnist, lecturer and host of the TV Show "The Art of Love".

With over 20 years experience on the relationship market, Lucia has dated men of all nationalities in six cities, four countries and two continents. Her practical know-how makes her the perfect candidate to dispense relationship advice – after all, in almost every dating dilemma she has been there, done that and lived to tell about it.

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